When a pastor answered “How are you?” honestly, it cost him friends, revealed the shallowness of quick-fix diagnoses, and reframed “loneliness” as the painful outcome of truth-telling.
There are lots of bad ways to pastor, and one counter-intuitive good way.
It’s tempting to pastor without a robust set of convictions. It’s easy to pastor while keeping an
You’re probably familiar with the Pareto principle. In general, the principle states, 80% of the results come from 20% of the causes. The takeaway is to focus on the few causes that