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# The Real Issue
- URL: https://www.dashhouse.com/2009726the-real-issue-html/
- Published: 2009-07-26T10:00:55.000Z
- Updated: 2022-08-15T15:30:55.000Z
- Author: Darryl Dash
- Tags: Blog, Books, Church, Faith, #DashHouseCom, #wp

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Jack Miller on the real issue underneath the issues:

> After our congregational meeting I was momentarily discouraged. *I guess I came away concluding that many times the biggest issue is not the issues being discussed but the way we handle the issues and show concern for one another.* It appears to me that is where the Head of the church has His concerns. So I resolved for myself to do more standing back, and then I asked God for grace not to take myself and the issues too seriously. I think sometimes after a few weeks we even have trouble remembering what the excitement was all about, so why get overly involved at the moment? (p.177)