Char's Blog
View From A Child's World
I was reflecting earlier tonight about how my children function better within positive structure and consistency - it provides the security in which they are able to flourish.
A certain amount of this need carries over into adult life. Some would argue that thought and yet, as LT comments, similar patterns emerge amongst those who consider themselves to be rebels, emergents, etc.
Even apart from the church, examination of world history reveals a basic human need to create structure and consistency. "NO structure" will be temporary at best and devasting at worst.
The best example of positive structure and consistency that I have observed had a look, at times, of chaos. Individual freedom to move, do, create, work within established perimeters. The "perimeters" were simple: do your work (but do it where you are best able and most want to do it); don't leave without a buddy to ensure that you return safely; treat others with respect; a consistent signal to establish the need to stop, look and listen.
Rethinking my world through this lens right now.
I strongly believe children love structure! There have been occassion where I have had to 'define' the structure for our children and thought afterwords that I might be too strict. I know when I am right when the kids come back with love (appreciation) for the structure.
I don't think I have put as well as you have but there you go!