I loan out a lot of books from my library, but I've noticed that there's one that goes out more than most. It's Unpacking Forgiveness: Biblical Answers for Complex Questions and Deep Wounds by Chris Brauns.Here's how it works. The other week I mentioned Chris's book in a sermon. When I was done, someone in the church asked to borrow the book.Other times I'll be counseling someone who is dealing with issues in their relationships. When I suggest that Chris's book may be a good one to read, they jump at the chance.I think I've loaned the book out at least half a dozen times in the past few months. Of course, Chris would be happier if I bought multiple copies rather than just loaning the same ones all the time.If you're a pastor, you really should have a copy of this book in your library. But take my advice and buy two, because if you're like me, you'll need one for yourself and one to share with others in your church.
Ken:To quote Unpacking Forgiveness: “Forgiveness is a figurative handshake. You cannot shake hands alone. For forgiveness to happen, you need to seek out the offending party (or the offended party if you are the offender), extend your hand, and pray that the other party will offer his or hers to you.”
Wednesday, October 27, 2010 at 5:00AM 
Reader Comments (9)
Do you forgive them when they don't return it?
I never loan a book to a man who asks that question.
Kenny - Are you confessing something?
Chris' book is not just for pastors to share with others, but laity, as well...I'm with you, Darryl, this is clearly the book I loan out the most.
Paul, I'm not saying until Darryl answers.
He only forgives them if they repent.
Ken:To quote Unpacking Forgiveness: “Forgiveness is a figurative handshake. You cannot shake hands alone. For forgiveness to happen, you need to seek out the offending party (or the offended party if you are the offender), extend your hand, and pray that the other party will offer his or hers to you.”
Can I borrow that book?
Art: Sure!